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Thursday, March 27, 2008

avoid stereotyping..

It’s 1.59 am…it’s Thursday morning…very early, too early…and it’s not dawn yet… hurm, and me right now is sitting in front of this gadget typing…do not have a feeling of sleepy yet. In fact, I got a can of Nescafe next to me; a way to make me feel awake and continue working. To add on, I’m just coming back from watching a mid night movie, ‘27 dresses’… interesting and entertaining… makes me smiling and dreaming… dreaming of a Mr Nice guy… ahah! Well, that’s just a briefing…

Anyway, at this time I’m thinking of analyzing people’s thinking. Confusing sentence? Huh, never mind… Before I get the knowledge (formal education), I’m maybe not too good or else shall I say do not too rational in encoding people messages… but, time is moving and perception is also changing. I learn to look at the situation from different view. Learn to think in different angle. By the way,it's not a matter of being expert in this field. Here, what I want to stress is, don’t be typical and stereotyped people especially when you are well-educated. You learnt all such things about stereotyping, generalizing… but, you still put your mind in that level. Such a worthless! Don’t train yourself to think negatively. I’m not saying that you can’t think negative at all. But, just limit yourself from thinking negatively all the time. You may do so, but not too often… people around will judge you as a negative thinker… One more thing, don’t pretend like you’re an angel. You are the only one who always right and others are wrong. Hello, please respect others too!! Even though you do not like other’s opinion, but please show some respect. This is what life all about. You get the idea (knowledge), and you need to practice it. Do not conquer everything. You know what, whether you realize it or not, others really hate such type of people. So do i.

Monday, March 3, 2008

A matter of life......++


A route to a better life… I’m searching for perfection. I’m looking forward on having a meaningful and happy life; meaningful in terms of having a soulmate who can appreciate my existence instead of sharing my feeling, meaningful in terms of having a happy family either steady or future family. By the way, it’s not a matter of materialistic but for the sake of better future life. Nowadays, nothing is free in this world (My finance lecturer taught me this phrase). Everything is charged for usage. It’s a MUST to pay to get food. In fact, the digested food in our body should also be paid for the usage of a toilet. Am I right? Does it make sense?
Time keeps moving, people keep on developing, technology keeps on growing, and even toilet fee keeps on increasing. From the rate of 20 cent and now it almost reaches RM1!
Anyhow, that’s only referred to a simple perspective. If multiple perspectives are considered, there are tones of dimensions should be concerned. Car, Condo (house), Cash, Cell phone as well as Career have become a NEED in life. That 5 C’s are no more to stay as a want. Again, does this make sense? Whatever, I really mean it!

……To be continued