avoid stereotyping..

It’s 1.59 am…it’s Thursday morning…very early, too early…and it’s not dawn yet… hurm, and me right now is sitting in front of this gadget typing…do not have a feeling of sleepy yet. In fact, I got a can of Nescafe next to me; a way to make me feel awake and continue working. To add on, I’m just coming back from watching a mid night movie, ‘27 dresses’… interesting and entertaining… makes me smiling and dreaming… dreaming of a Mr Nice guy… ahah! Well, that’s just a briefing…

Anyway, at this time I’m thinking of analyzing people’s thinking. Confusing sentence? Huh, never mind… Before I get the knowledge (formal education), I’m maybe not too good or else shall I say do not too rational in encoding people messages… but, time is moving and perception is also changing. I learn to look at the situation from different view. Learn to think in different angle. By the way,it's not a matter of being expert in this field. Here, what I want to stress is, don’t be typical and stereotyped people especially when you are well-educated. You learnt all such things about stereotyping, generalizing… but, you still put your mind in that level. Such a worthless! Don’t train yourself to think negatively. I’m not saying that you can’t think negative at all. But, just limit yourself from thinking negatively all the time. You may do so, but not too often… people around will judge you as a negative thinker… One more thing, don’t pretend like you’re an angel. You are the only one who always right and others are wrong. Hello, please respect others too!! Even though you do not like other’s opinion, but please show some respect. This is what life all about. You get the idea (knowledge), and you need to practice it. Do not conquer everything. You know what, whether you realize it or not, others really hate such type of people. So do i.

A matter of life......++

A route to a better life… I’m searching for perfection. I’m looking forward on having a meaningful and happy life; meaningful in terms of having a soulmate who can appreciate my existence instead of sharing my feeling, meaningful in terms of having a happy family either steady or future family. By the way, it’s not a matter of materialistic but for the sake of better future life. Nowadays, nothing is free in this world (My finance lecturer taught me this phrase). Everything is charged for usage. It’s a MUST to pay to get food. In fact, the digested food in our body should also be paid for the usage of a toilet. Am I right? Does it make sense?
Time keeps moving, people keep on developing, technology keeps on growing, and even toilet fee keeps on increasing. From the rate of 20 cent and now it almost reaches RM1!
Anyhow, that’s only referred to a simple perspective. If multiple perspectives are considered, there are tones of dimensions should be concerned. Car, Condo (house), Cash, Cell phone as well as Career have become a NEED in life. That 5 C’s are no more to stay as a want. Again, does this make sense? Whatever, I really mean it!

……To be continued

a new day has come..

18 February; the day has come again… the number has changed…the situation is varied… the condition is not as the same as before…but then, is the feeling still the same? Many things happened, many occasions occurred, is the relation still exist? I do not have the answer… do not ask me those questions, but please do ask the responsible person….

I’m still the same person as you’ve known earlier… I’ve maybe changed… but, changing in life is a must… change to be a better person… change to be a matured person… change to be a knowledgeable person… change to be an experienced person… these are a must… but, I’m not changing my feeling yet…should I or shouldn’t I ?

When mind is kept thinking, when head is still spinning, when heart is still searching…I need a confirmation…

It’s been thousands of hours…are you still in confusion? If the condition (which I’ve made) became the block, then please ignore it. I’m still holding the religious faith… still know to differentiate which one should and shouldn’t be followed… don’t you believe me?

If… you’ve made the decision, and the answer brings me tears, then I accept it… nothing can change your mind right? If… the answer brings me smiles, then I do accept it too… the decision is yours… because the destiny is fated!

lucky days..(",)

holiday has past..continue being a researcher for knowlege and experience. experience? ya, i do experience many new things these few days..surprised. shocked. all mixed up. wow, like a dream!btw, praise to God 4 ur blessing...... i do enjoy my new life even though it's only about a month..having everyone around me..even though it cant be called 'perfect' life yet, but it seems so. no point to turning back and remember the past. am i right? past three days, i have so-called lucky days because something happened and all these make me smile along the way. huhu..hoping that today, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, the next 2 days after tomorrow and future on will be much more luck......chayok, chayok!!

-people's perception-

holiday time;4 these few days..so, 4 sure grab dis opportunity 2 b in my hometown..spending time wif friends, my lovely parents..makes dis life perfect......
many things happened..at this time, juz finish chatting with some so-called new 'kenalan'..by knowing the way people give feedback, we'll know which 1 should we turn that word of 'kenalan' becomes 'kawan'...people give us 1001 perception..n 2 nite, juz 4 a reason i dont want 2 continue chatting, i've been labelled as 'sombong'...hurm, am i?? i've a reason 4 doing that..not for fun.. am i being selfish 4 doing that? i dun think so..i juz ..dont want 2 b friends with people who have short-circuit n think like 'cm dia jer bagus'...fair rite?? there's no point 2 b friend with people who'll going 2 make my life goes crazy..yeah..i'm juz choosing the right way..dats enough 4 other problems i've faced..dont want 2 burden myself......
......so, the moral value is, dont let others judge you by the way they think..they may be rite n they maybe wrong..but not all opinion is good n not all opinion is wrong..it is myself who's going to scan n take which is needed..the most important thing is, dont let that 'crazy perception' playing in my mind......yes!!

:a come back:

ooohhh..i'm back!! after a long period of time, i'm back 2 write sumthing on dis..
hurm, anyway i'm still da same person as b4 ....even though time n days keep changing..
changes are vital..but 4 sum n certain reasons; especially the positive one is very important in order 2 guide us 2 b'come a better person in the future..

actually, juz came back from watching sweeney todd wif frenz.. wut shall i say? it's a musical movie + thriller..yet it is classified in 18PL group...a bit slow movie due 2 many singing part..but the storyline is interesting..a barber has a revenge to a judge..he kills many people with a shave knife...the sad part is when he accidentally killed his wife...from 5 star, i could give 4...

feelin' sleepy rite now...gtg 1st...